Of all the troubles that go with moving, with children, with pets, with stuff, it seems I have been able to skirt around many of them. Only because of family. Only because of the kind of love that goes without convenience. Certainly it isn’t convenient to have two nutty little boys and their mama (who may or may not be needy as well) staying at your house while it is under construction and you have only one bathroom and no washing machine. Certainly it isn’t the easiest thing in the world to have a whole slew of people stay at your house when it is planting season and everyone everyone likes to have their garden planted by memorial day (at least that is what I am told). A driveway full of flats of flowers, to the point where the delivery man asks if this is a nursery. A busy week for all. But no problem, we are a family. That is what they do.
It can’t be easy to be the one who has to drive 18 hours once with two loud children just to turn around and do it with two cats, a dog, a batch of beer, and a batch of kambucha. Clean the old place in a frenzy, try to set up the new one with gusto. Study at all hours of the night for a new semester has begun and all the same start a very new, very exciting, brand new job in a town where you know not a soul. No, this can not be easy. But, my man does it with grace. I am have much to learn from these beautiful people I am so lucky to have as mine.
And most of all it cant be easy to be uprooted from all you know, all you can remember. See your belongings in boxes, scattered about every room, stepping over things for days. Dealing with a mama trying (oh so hard) to keep her cool amidst the chaos. These two remind me to stay on course. This is fun. This is an adventure. This whole entire thing.
It is exhausting I am sure.
And I have run out of time. For now. There is too much madness, to much stuff behind me of which I intend to ignore, and in front of me I see precisely what is in store for us.
Oh yes. This is our backyard. An adventure it is.